Monday 21 May 2012

Cara Rasulullah mendidik anak-anak

Bagaimana Rasulullah Mendidik Anak Rasulullah S.A.W. telah menggariskan empat tahap mendidik anak iaitu: Tahap Pertama: Anak yang baru lahir sehingga mumayyiz (enam tahun ) hendakkah kita banyak bergurau dan membelai mereka dengan penuh kasih sayang sebagaimana haiwan menjaga anak. Tahap Kedua: Anak berumur tujuh tahun sehingga baligh(14 tahun)hendaklah kita mendidik mereka dengan arahan, disiplin dan beri tanggungjawab. Tahap Ketiga: Anak berumur 15 tahun hingga dewasa (21 tahun ) hendaklah dididik dengan cara berkawan, bertukar pendapat dan hormati pendapat mereka selagi yang tidak bertentangan dengan syariat. Tahap Keempat: Anak berumur lebih 21 tahun. Hendaklah para ibu bapa memberikan kebebasan bertindak selagi tidak bertentangan dengan syariat.Ibu bapa hanya perlu bertindak sebagai penasihat agar segala tindakkan mereka terkawal. Source: ~LB~ By: Dunia macam-macam

Monday 7 May 2012

Doa yang afdal

Doa-Doa Yang Afdal Sebaik-baik doa adalah doa-doa daripada Al-Quran, kerana ayat-ayat Al-Quran itu sendiri adalah kalam Allah (kata-kata dari Allah). Contohnya, doa Nabi Ibrahim di dalam surah 14:35-41. Antara doa-doa di dalam Al-Quran Doa supaya tidak berputus asa [Maryam:4] Doa dilapangkan dada dan dipermudahkan urusan [Thaha:25-26] Doa mohon kurnia rahmat dan petunjuk yang lurus segala urusan [Kahfi:10] Doa mohon keampunan atas kesalahan meminta sesuatuyang tidak diketahui hakikatnya [Hud:47] Doa mohon diberi keputusan yang baik [A'raaf:89]Doa mohon kasih sayang untuk ibu bapa [Isra':14] Doa mohon dihindarkan dari fitnah dan diselamatkan dari tipu daya orang kafir [Yunus:85-86] Doa memohon kesejahteraan dunia dan akhirat [Baqarah:201] Doa memohon keampunan dan rahmat [A'raaf:23] Doa memohon agar diterima amalan [Baqarah:127] Doa dicukupkan keperluan [Taubah:129] Doa mohon agar mensyukuri nikmat Allah [Ahqaf:15] - Artikel iluvislam.com

Ciri-cii lelaki soleh

Tanyalah Ustaz Ciri-Ciri Lelaki Soleh: Yang sentiasa berbakti kepada kedua orang tua dan keluarga, Yang sentiasa bersedia untuk menjadi imam, Yang hatinya disaluti rasa taqwa kepada Allah, Yang solatnya adalah maruah dirinya, Yang menjaga pandangan matanya agar tidak tergoda dgn nafsu, Yang sujud penuh kesyukuran dengan rahmat Allah keatasnya, Yang akan mendidik isteri dan anak-anak mendalami Islam, Yang mengamalkan hidup penuh kesederhanaan, Yang mengimpikan Syurga dan ingin membawa kita bersamanya, Kerana dunia baginya adalah rumah sementara menuju akhirat.. “Jika datang (melamar anak gadismu) seorang lelaki yang engkau redhai agama dan akhlaknya, maka nikahkanlah dia (dengan anak gadismu itu). Jika tidak engkau lakukan, maka akan terjadi fitnah dan kerusakan di muka bumi.” (HR. At-Tirmidzi, Ibnu Majah, dan lain-lain)

Friday 4 May 2012

Doa dan cara menegur_Datuk Fadhilah Kamsan

Dato' Dr. Haji Mohd Fadzilah Kamsah Via FB As salamu'alaikum shbt. Izinkan saya kongsi petua nak tegur dgn HIKMAH: 1.Istighfar & doa agar kita dpt hidayah & org dpt terima teguran,2.Baca doa pedinding diri & doa pelembut hati ( baca Ya 'Aziz Ya Jabbar Ya Mutakabbir),3.Belai dgn sebut kebaikan sblm tegur,4.Tegur dgn jelas, tenang & elak naikkan suara, 5.Bimbing utk kenalpasti punca masalah, 6.Bimbing cari alternatif solusi & buat rangka tindakan, 7.Naikkan smgt agar yakin diri & segera bertindak, 8.Pesan utk sama2 doa mendoakan, 9. Bertawakkal kpd Allah. Moga teguran kita penuh hikmah & bawa kebaikan kpd yg d tegur & yg menegur. Amin, wassalam.

Thursday 3 May 2012

Islamic slaughtering

Islamic Research Foundation / Dr.Zakir Naik / IRF Question: Why do Muslims slaughter the animal in a ruthless manner by torturing it and slowly and painfully killing it? Answer: The Islamic method of slaughtering animals, known as Zabiha has been the object of much criticism from a large number of people. Before I reply to the question, let me relate an incidence about a discussion between a Sikh and a Muslim regarding animal slaughter. Once a Sikh asked a Muslim, “Why do you slaughter the animal painfully by cutting the throat instead of the way we do with one stroke i.e. jhatka?” The Muslim replied “We are brave and courageous and attack from the front. We are mard ka baccha (macho men), you are cowards and attack from behind”. Jokes apart, one may consider the following points, which prove that the Zabiha method is not only humane but also scientifically the best: 1. Islamic method of slaughtering animal Zakkaytum is a verb derived from the root word Zakaah (to purify). Its infinitive is Tazkiyah which means purification. The Islamic mode of slaughtering an animal requires the following conditions to be met: a. Animal should be slaughtered with a sharp object (knife) The animal has to be slaughtered with a sharp object (knife) and in a fast way so that the pain of slaughter is minimised. b. Cut wind pipe, throat and vessels of neck Zabiha is an Arabic word which means ‘slaughtered’. The ‘slaughtering’ is to be done by cutting the throat, windpipe and the blood vessels in the neck causing the animal’s death without cutting the spinal cord. c. Blood should be drained The blood has to be drained completely before the head is removed. The purpose is to drain out most of the blood which would serve as a good culture medium for micro-organisms. The spinal cord must not be cut because the nerve fibres to the heart could be damaged during the process causing cardiac arrest, stagnating the blood in the blood vessels. 2. Blood is a good medium for germs and bacteria Blood is a good media of germs, bacteria, toxins, etc. Therefore the Muslim way of slaughtering is more hygienic as most of the blood containing germs, bacteria, toxins, etc. that are the cause of several diseases is eliminated. 3. Meat remains fresh for a longer time Meat slaughtered by Islamic way remains fresh for a longer time due to deficiency of blood in the meat as compared to other methods of slaughtering. 4. Animal does not feel pain The swift cutting of vessels of the neck disconnects the flow of blood to the nerve of the brain responsible for pain. Thus the animal does not feel pain. While dying, the animal struggles, writhes, shakes and kicks, not due to pain, but due to the contraction and relaxation of the muscles deficient in blood and due to the flow of blood out of of the body.