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The Rights of the Husband and the Wife
The Rights of the Husband and the Wife
Posted by iloveAllaah.com Editor • March 7, 2012
What are a wife's rights on her husband according the Quran and Sunnah? or what are a husbands duties to his wife and viceversa?
Praise be to Allaah.
Islam has enjoined upon the husband duties towards his wife, and vice versa, and among these duties are some which are shared by
both husband and wife.
We will mention – by the help of Allaah – some of the texts of the Qur’aan and Sunnah which have to do with the duties of the spouses towards one another, quoting also from the commentaries and views of the scholars.
Firstly:
The rights of the wife which are hers alone:
The wife has financial rights over her husband, which are the mahr (dowry), spending and accommodation.
And she has non-financial rights, such as fair division between co-wives, being treated in a decent and reasonable manner, and not being treated in a harmful way by her husband.
1. Financial rights
(a) The mahr (dowry). This is the money to which the wife is entitled from her husband when the marriage contract is completed or when the marriage is consummated. It is a right which the man is obliged to pay to the woman. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And give to the women (whom you marry) their Mahr (obligatory bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage) with a good heart” [al-Nisaa’ 4:4]
The prescription of the mahr demonstrates the seriousness and importance of the marriage-contract, and is a token of respect and honour to the woman.
The mahr is not a condition or essential part of the marriage-contract, according to the majority of fuqahaa’; rather it is one of the consequences of the contract. If the marriage-contract is done without any mention of the mahr, it is still valid, according to the consensus of the majority, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“There is no sin on you, if you divorce women while yet you have not touched (had sexual relation with) them, nor appointed unto them their Mahr (bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage)” [al-Baqarah 2:236]
The fact that divorce is permitted before consummation of the marriage or before stipulating the mahr indicates that it is permissible not to stipulate the mahr in the marriage-contract.
If the mahr is stipulated, it becomes obligatory upon the husband; if it is not stipulated, then he must give the mahr that is given to women of similar status to his wife.
(b) Spending. The scholars of Islam are agreed that it is obligatory for husbands to spend on their wives, on the condition that the wife make herself available to her husband. If she refuses him or rebels, then she is not entitled to that spending.
The reason why it is obligatory to spend on her is that the woman is available only to her husband, because of the marriage contract, and she is not allowed to leave the marital home except with his permission. So he has to spend on her and provide for her, and this is in return for her making herself available to him for his pleasure.
What is meant by spending is providing what the wife needs of food and accommodation. She has the right to these things even if she is rich, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“but the father of the child shall bear the cost of the mother’s food and clothing on a reasonable basis” [al-Baqarah 2:233]
“Let the rich man spend according to his means; and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allaah has given him” [al-Talaaq 65:7]
From the Sunnah:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Hind bint ‘Utbah – the wife of Abu Sufyaan – who had complained that he did not spend on her: “Take what is sufficient for you and your children, on a reasonable basis.”
It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah said: “Hind bint ‘Utbah, the wife of Abu Sufyaan, entered upon the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, Abu Sufyaan is a stingy man who does not spend enough on me and my children, except for what I take from his wealth without his knowledge. Is there any sin on me for doing that?’ The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘Take from his wealth on a reasonable basis, only what is sufficient for you and your children.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5049; Muslim, 1714)
It was narrated from Jaabir that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said in his Farewell Sermon:
“Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah. You too have rights over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed [i.e., not let them into the house] whom you do not like. But if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely. Their rights upon you are that you should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner” (Narrated by Muslim, 1218)
(c) Accommodation. This is also one of the wife’s rights, which means that her husband should prepare for her accommodation according to his means and ability. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Lodge them (the divorced women) where you dwell, according to your means” [al-Talaaq 65:6]
2. Non-financial rights
(i) Fair treatment of co-wives. One of the rights that a wife has over her husband is that she and her co-wives should be treated equally, if the husband has other wives, with regard to nights spent with them, spending and clothing.
(ii) Kind treatment. The husband must have a good attitude towards his wife and be kind to her, and offer her everything that may soften her heart towards him, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“and live with them honourably” [al-Nisaa’ 4:19]
“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable” [al-Baqarah 2:228]
From the Sunnah:
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Be kind to women.’”(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3153; Muslim, 1468).
There follow examples of the kind treatment of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) towards his wives – for he is the best example:
1. It was narrated from Zaynab bint Abi Salamah that Umm Salamah said: “I got my menses when I was lying with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) under a single woollen sheet. I slipped away and put on the clothes I usually wore for menstruation. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to me, ‘Have you got your menses?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ Then he called me and made me lie with him under the same sheet.”
She said: And she told me that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to kiss her when he was fasting, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and I used to do ghusl to cleanse ourselves from janaabah from one vessel. (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 316; Muslim, 296)
2. It was narrated that ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr said: “ ‘Aa’ishah said: ‘By Allaah, I saw the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) standing at the door of my apartment when the Abyssinians were playing with their spears in the Mosque of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He covered me with his cloak so that I could watch their games, then he stood there for my sake until I was the one who had had enough. So you should appreciate the fact that young girls like to have fun.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 443; Muslim, 892)
3. It was narrated from ‘Aa’ishah the Mother of the Believers (may Allaah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to pray sitting down; he would recite Qur’aan when he was sitting down, then when there were thirty or forty aayahs left, he would stand up and recite them standing up. Then he did rukoo’, then sujood; then he would do likewise in the second rak’ah. When he had finished his prayer, he would look, and if I was awake he would talk with me, and if I was asleep he would lie down.
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1068)
(c) Not harming one’s wife.
This is one of the basic principles of Islam. Because harming others is haraam in the case of strangers, it is even more so in the case of harming one’s wife.
It was narrated from ‘Ubaadah ibn al-Saamit that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) ruled, “There should be no harming nor reciprocating harm.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah,, 2340)
This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Imaam Ahmad, al-Haakim, Ibn al-Salaah and others. See Khalaasat al-Badr al-Muneer, 2/438.
Among the things to which the Lawgiver drew attention in this matter is the prohibition of hitting or beating in a severe manner.
It was narrated from Jaabir that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said in his Farewell Sermon:
“Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah. You too have rights over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed [i.e., not let them into the house] whom you do not like. But if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely. Their rights upon you are that you should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner” (Narrated by Muslim, 1218)
Secondly:
The husband’s rights over his wife.
The rights of the husband over his wife are among the greatest rights; indeed his rights over her are greater than her rights over him, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them [al-Baqarah 2:228]
al-Jassaas said: Allaah tells us in this aayah that each of the spouses has rights over the other, and that the husband has one particular right over his wife which she does not have over him.
Ibn al-‘Arabi said: this text states that he has some preference over her with regard to rights and duties of marriage.
These rights include:
(a) The obligation of obedience. Allaah has made the man a qawwaam (protector and maintainer) of the woman by commanding, directing and taking care of her, just as guardians take care of their charges, by virtue of the physical and mental faculties that Allaah has given only to men and the financial obligations that He has enjoined upon them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allaah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means” [al-Nisaa’ 4:34]
‘Ali ibn Abi Talhah said, narrating from Ibn ‘Abbaas: “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women” means, they are in charge of them, i.e., she should obey him in matters of obedience that Allaah has enjoined upon her, and obey him by treating his family well and taking care of his wealth. This was the view of Muqaatil, al-Saddi and al-Dahhaak.(Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 1/492)
(b) Making herself available to her husband. One of the rights that the husband has over his wife is that he should be able to enjoy her (physically). If he marries a woman and she is able to have intercourse, she is obliged to submit herself to him according to the contract, if he asks her. That is after he gives her the immediate mahr, and gives her some time – two or three days, if she asks for that – to sort herself out, because that is something that she needs, and because that is not too long and is customary.
If a wife refuses to respond to her husband’s request for intercourse, she has done something haraam and has committed a major sin, unless she has a valid shar’i excuse such as menses, obligatory fasting, sickness, etc.
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘When a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he went to sleep angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3065; Muslim, 1436)
(c) Not admitting anyone whom the husband dislikes. One of the rights that the husband has over his wife is that she should not permit anyone whom he dislikes to enter his house.
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permitted for a woman to fast when her husband is present without his permission, or to admit anyone into his house without his permission. And whatever she spends (in charity) of his wealth without his consent, ….” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4899; Muslim, 1026)
It was narrated from Sulaymaan ibn ‘Amr ibn al-Ahwas: my father told me that he was present at the Farewell Pilgrimage (Hujjat al-Wadaa’) with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He [the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)] praised and glorified Allaah, then he preached a sermon and said: “Treat women kindly, for they are prisoners and you have no other power over them than that, if they are guilty of open lewdness, then refuse to share their beds, and hit them, but not severely. But if they return to obedience, (then) do not seek means (of annoyance) against them. You have rights over your women and your women have rights over you. Your rights over your women are that they should not let anyone whom you dislike sit on your bed and they should not let anyone whom you dislike enter your house. Their rights over you are that you should feed and clothe them well.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1163 – he said this is a saheeh hasan hadeeth. Also narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1851)
It was narrated that Jaabir said: [the Prophet] (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah. You too have rights over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed [i.e., not let them into the house] whom you do not like. But if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely. Their rights upon you are that you should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner” (Narrated by Muslim, 1218)
(d) Not going out of the house except with the husband’s permission. One of the rights of the husband over his wife is that she should not go out of the house except with his permission.
The Shaafa’is and Hanbalis said: she does not have the right to visit (even) her sick father except with the permission of her husband, and he has the right to prevent her from doing that… because obedience to the husband is obligatory, and it is not permitted to neglect an obligatory action for something that is not obligatory.
(e) Discipline. The husband has the right to discipline his wife if she disobeys him in something good, not if she disobeys him in something sinful, because Allaah has enjoined disciplining women by forsaking them in bed and by hitting them, when they do not obey.
The Hanafis mentioned four situations in which a husband is permitted to discipline his wife by hitting her. These are: not adorning herself when he wants her to; not responding when he calls her to bed and she is taahirah (pure, i.e., not menstruating); not praying; and going out of the house without his permission.
The evidence that it is permissible to discipline one's wife includes the aayahs (interpretation of the meaning):
“As to those women on whose part you see ill‑conduct, admonish them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful)” [al-Nisaa’ 4:34]
“O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones” [al-Tahreem 66:6]
Ibn Katheer said:
Qutaadah said: you should command them to obey Allaah, and forbid them to disobey Allaah; you should be in charge of them in accordance with the command of Allaah, and instruct them to follow the commands of Allaah, and help them to do so. If you see any act of disobedience towards Allaah, then stop them from doing it and rebuke them for that.
This was also the view of al-Dahhaak and Muqaatil: that the duty of the Muslim is to teach his family, including his relatives and his slaves, that which Allaah has enjoined upon them and that which He has forbidden them. (Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 4/392)
(f) The wife serving her husband. There is a great deal of evidence (daleel) for this, some of which has been mentioned above.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:
She is obliged to serve her husband according to what is reasonable among people of similar standing. That varies according to circumstances: the way in which a Bedouin woman serves (her husband) will not be like the way of a town-dweller, and the way of a strong woman will not be like the way of a weak woman. (al-Fataawa al-Kubraa, 4/561)
(g) Submitting herself to him. Once the conditions of the marriage-contract have been fulfilled and it is valid, then the woman is obliged to submit herself to her husband and allow him to enjoy her (physically), because once the contract is completed, he is allowed in return to enjoy her, and the wife is entitled to the compensation which is the mahr.
(h) The wife should treat her husband in a good manner, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable” [al-Baqarah 2:228]
Al-Qurtubi said:
It was also narrated from him – i.e., Ibn ‘Abbaas – that this means: they have the right to good companionship and kind and reasonable treatment from their husbands just as they are obliged to obey the commands of their husbands.
And it was said that they have the right that their husbands should not harm them, and their husbands have a similar right over them. This was the view of al-Tabari.
Ibn Zayd said: You should fear Allaah concerning them just as they should fear Allaah concerning you.
The meanings are similar, and the aayah includes all of that in the rights and duties of marriage.(Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 3/123-124)
And Allaah knows best.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Read also - The Rights of Wife and Children on the Man
- See more at: http://blog.iloveallaah.com/2012/03/rights-of-the-husband-and-the-wife/#sthash.5d6RIHQi.dpuf
Monday, 1 July 2013
Amalan amalan wanita semasa mengandung menurut islam
Amalan amalan wanita semasa mengandung menurut islam, apabila pasangan suami dan isteri yang telah mendirikan rumah tangga sudah pasti akan dikurniakan Cahaya Mata oleh Allah S.W.T.
Sebagai seorang yang akan bergelar ibu mestilah sentiasa menjaga kesihatan luaran dan juga dalaman.
Antara amalan yang disarankan ialah :
1) Banyakkan bertaubat - memohon ampun akan dosa-dosa yg telah kita lakukan sebelum ini, semoga anak yang bakal lahir itu nanti menjadi anak yang bertaqwa.
2) Menutup Aurat - Sentiasa menutup aurat sesuai dengan ketentuan ajaran Islam. Agar hidup mendapat keberkatan.
3) Banyakkan membaca ayat-ayat suci Al-Quran Seperti :
[+] Surah Al-Fatihah dan ayat kursi
[+] Surah Yaasin
[+] Surah Taubat
[+] Surah Maryam (untuk mudah bersalin-anak soleh dan taat)
[+] Surah Yusof (utk memperoleh anak yang cantik, kacak, sihat dan sempurna).
[+] Surah Luqman (utk mendapatkan anak yg taat)
[+] Surah An-Nahl ayat 78
[+] Surah Al-’Araaf ayat 189
Semoga amalan-amalan ini dapat memberikan kesenangan kepada ibu yang bakal melahirkan cahaya mata.
Amalan amalan wanita semasa mengandung menurut islam, apabila pasangan suami dan isteri yang telah mendirikan rumah tangga sudah pasti akan dikurniakan Cahaya Mata oleh Allah S.W.T. Sebagai seorang yang akan bergelar ibu mestilah sentiasa menjaga kesihatan luaran dan juga dalaman. Antara amalan yang disarankan ialah : 1) Banyakkan bertaubat - memohon ampun akan dosa-dosa yg telah kita lakukan sebelum ini, semoga anak yang bakal lahir itu nanti menjadi anak yang bertaqwa. 2) Menutup Aurat - Sentiasa menutup aurat sesuai dengan ketentuan ajaran Islam. Agar hidup mendapat keberkatan. 3) Banyakkan membaca ayat-ayat suci Al-Quran Seperti : [+] Surah Al-Fatihah dan ayat kursi [+] Surah Yaasin [+] Surah Taubat [+] Surah Maryam (untuk mudah bersalin-anak soleh dan taat) [+] Surah Yusof (utk memperoleh anak yang cantik, kacak, sihat dan sempurna). [+] Surah Luqman (utk mendapatkan anak yg taat) [+] Surah An-Nahl ayat 78 [+] Surah Al-’Araaf ayat 189 Semoga amalan-amalan ini dapat memberikan kesenangan kepada ibu yang bakal melahirkan cahaya mata.
Sumber:https://www.facebook.com/SemanisKurmaTv9?fref=ts
Friday, 9 December 2011
Hijab_unveiling a mystery
Some good links on women and hijab:
http://blog.iloveallaah.com/2011/01/the-hijab-unveiling-a-mystery/
http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/taking-off-the-hijab/
http://blog.iloveallaah.com/category/resources/for-sisters/
http://blog.iloveallaah.com/2011/01/the-hijab-unveiling-a-mystery/
http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/taking-off-the-hijab/
http://blog.iloveallaah.com/category/resources/for-sisters/
Saturday, 26 November 2011
Celik Mata dan Jiwa Seorang Isteri
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oajrn8QUmuo&feature=colike
Isteri yg celik mata dan jiwanya akan bahagia dan membahagiakan. Apakah tujuan kita menjadi isteri? Visi kita... apakh matlamat kehidupan kita?
menjaga kesihatan minda.....
Bangun pagi:
Berfikiran positif:
5 tiang kehidupan yg sihat:
1) Fizikal- sihat tubuh badan. Jaga pemakanan (tahu tentang nutrisi)
Karbohidrat (Glycemic index yg tinggi & rendah)
Protein (lambat rasa lapar)_ susu, telur, air
Vitamin (perlu supplement kerana top soil dah kurang vitamin),
Exercise (jika kita tidak ada masa untuk senaman & kesihatan.... )
2) Mental (pemikiran) (apa dia bahan bacaan kita - buku & majalah yg kita baca. majalah yg berkualiti. Channel TV (channel apa yg kita pilih?). Melabur dlm Minda kita.
3) Kerohanian kita. manusia dijadikan hamba, khalimah & mengimarahkan dunia. jaga solat.
4) Menjaga Hubungan dgn manusia:
Bila jumpa suami- hargainya. sebut kebaikannya. jangan mengkritiknya. Layan org lebih dari kita dilayan. Buat org rasa penting.
Hormat menghormati sangat penting.
Puji & peluk anak-anak. katakan saya bangga mendapat anak seperti sipolan. naikkan imej anak-anak.
Wanita yg paling bijak, dia bijak menjaga hubungan dgn ibu mertua.
5) Menjaga Kewangan. jaga skin care, pemakanan. Jaga kecantikan. jaga kebersihan hidung, mata, mulut. Jaga hati, perasaan & jiwanya. Allah, rasul & suami.
Keutamaan- makanan kesihatan & buku untuk kesihatan minda. Cara belajar yg baik. motivasi yg baik.
Untuk bahagia sepanjang hayat dapatlah anak-anak yg baik. jadilah isteri yg baik.
Kita semua hamba Allah. kalau meninggal esok-esok adakah kita senyum.
Tekankan lima perkara
Isteri yg celik mata dan jiwanya akan bahagia dan membahagiakan. Apakah tujuan kita menjadi isteri? Visi kita... apakh matlamat kehidupan kita?
menjaga kesihatan minda.....
Bangun pagi:
Berfikiran positif:
- bersyukur
- tujiuan berkahwin
- Untuk mendapat anak yg soleh untuk mendoakan kita setelah mati (ie pencen mati)
- sentiasa menjaga hubungan kita (
- kewangan kita (jgn berlebihan & membazir)
5 tiang kehidupan yg sihat:
1) Fizikal- sihat tubuh badan. Jaga pemakanan (tahu tentang nutrisi)
Karbohidrat (Glycemic index yg tinggi & rendah)
Protein (lambat rasa lapar)_ susu, telur, air
Vitamin (perlu supplement kerana top soil dah kurang vitamin),
Exercise (jika kita tidak ada masa untuk senaman & kesihatan.... )
2) Mental (pemikiran) (apa dia bahan bacaan kita - buku & majalah yg kita baca. majalah yg berkualiti. Channel TV (channel apa yg kita pilih?). Melabur dlm Minda kita.
3) Kerohanian kita. manusia dijadikan hamba, khalimah & mengimarahkan dunia. jaga solat.
4) Menjaga Hubungan dgn manusia:
Bila jumpa suami- hargainya. sebut kebaikannya. jangan mengkritiknya. Layan org lebih dari kita dilayan. Buat org rasa penting.
Hormat menghormati sangat penting.
Puji & peluk anak-anak. katakan saya bangga mendapat anak seperti sipolan. naikkan imej anak-anak.
Wanita yg paling bijak, dia bijak menjaga hubungan dgn ibu mertua.
5) Menjaga Kewangan. jaga skin care, pemakanan. Jaga kecantikan. jaga kebersihan hidung, mata, mulut. Jaga hati, perasaan & jiwanya. Allah, rasul & suami.
Keutamaan- makanan kesihatan & buku untuk kesihatan minda. Cara belajar yg baik. motivasi yg baik.
Untuk bahagia sepanjang hayat dapatlah anak-anak yg baik. jadilah isteri yg baik.
Kita semua hamba Allah. kalau meninggal esok-esok adakah kita senyum.
Tekankan lima perkara
Sunday, 6 November 2011
Sunday, 30 October 2011
Prof Muhaya_aurat wanita_2
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Prof Dr Muhaya
Kepada semua anak gadis. Tanda benar sayangkan ayah bukan memberi hadiah harijadi tapi jaga aurat. Kepada para isteri tanda sayang suami bukan memasak sedap saja tapi jaga aurat. Renungan buat saya juga
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♦4 Golongan Lelaki yg Ditarik Oleh Wanita Ke Neraka♦
1 • Ayahnya
Apabila seseorang yang bergelar ayah tidak memperdulikan anak-anak perempuannya di dunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat, mengaji dan sebagainya. Dia membiarkan anak-anak perempuannya tidak menutup aurat.....tidak cukup kalau dengan hanya memberi kemewahan dunia sahaja maka dia akan ditarik oleh anaknya.
2 • Suaminya
Apabila seorang suami tidak memperdulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan untuk suami tapi untuk pandangan kaum lelaki yang bukan mahram, apabila suami mendiam diri......walaupun dia seorang alim (solat tidak tangguh, puasa tidak tinggal) maka dia akan ditarik oleh isterinya.
3 • Abang-abangnya
Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada, tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke pula abang-abangnya.....jikalau mereka hanya mementing keluarganya sahaja dan adik perempuannya dibiar melencong dari ajaran ISLAM ....tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat.
4 • Anak Lelakinya
Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yang haram dari islam, maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertangungjawabkan di akhirat kelak.......nantikan tarikan ibunya.
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Firman ALLAH S.W.T ~
"Hai anak adam peliharakanlah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka,
dimana bahan pembakarannya ialah manusia & batu- batu"
(surah At-Tahrim, ayat 6, juzuk 28)
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buat para ibu bapa yang tertipu apabila mereka menjadi soleh dan solehah tetapi anak perempuan dibiarkan berpakaian sesuka hati. Mereka akan menyesal diakhirat nanti apabila anak anak menjadi penghalang mereka masuk syurga. Banyak ibu bapa bangga dengan pencapaian dunia, Hanya orang yang tidak mukmin setakat muslim sahaja mementingkan fesyen yang dilihat manusia. sama audit diri kita tremasuk saya sendiri
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Dengarkan ulasan daripada Dr. Zaharuddin berkenaan pemakaian dan nilai hati seorang wanita.
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Suami patut mendidik isteri. Jom para wanita yang belum bertemu jodoh doa mendapat suami soleh. suami dayyus tidak berbau syurga eg membiarkan isteri mendedahkan aurat. jom kaum wanita jaga gambar yang kita letak kat facebook buka aurat. tidak ada apa nak dibanggakan dengan aurat kita tetapi membuka aib kita. GAmbar profile kita menggambarkan kemana kita diakhirat nanti.
Prof Dr Muhaya
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♦4 Golongan Lelaki yg Ditarik Oleh Wanita Ke Neraka♦
1 • Ayahnya
Apabila seseorang yang bergelar ayah tidak memperdulikan anak-anak perempuannya di dunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat, mengaji dan sebagainya. Dia membiarkan anak-anak perempuannya tidak menutup aurat.....tidak cukup kalau dengan hanya memberi kemewahan dunia sahaja maka dia akan ditarik oleh anaknya.
2 • Suaminya
Apabila seorang suami tidak memperdulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan untuk suami tapi untuk pandangan kaum lelaki yang bukan mahram, apabila suami mendiam diri......walaupun dia seorang alim (solat tidak tangguh, puasa tidak tinggal) maka dia akan ditarik oleh isterinya.
3 • Abang-abangnya
Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada, tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke pula abang-abangnya.....jikalau mereka hanya mementing keluarganya sahaja dan adik perempuannya dibiar melencong dari ajaran ISLAM ....tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat.
4 • Anak Lelakinya
Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yang haram dari islam, maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertangungjawabkan di akhirat kelak.......nantikan tarikan ibunya.
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Firman ALLAH S.W.T ~
"Hai anak adam peliharakanlah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka,
dimana bahan pembakarannya ialah manusia & batu- batu"
(surah At-Tahrim, ayat 6, juzuk 28)
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Prof Dr Muhaya via Prof Dr Muhaya
buat para ibu bapa yang tertipu apabila mereka menjadi soleh dan solehah tetapi anak perempuan dibiarkan berpakaian sesuka hati. Mereka akan menyesal diakhirat nanti apabila anak anak menjadi penghalang mereka masuk syurga. Banyak ibu bapa bangga dengan pencapaian dunia, Hanya orang yang tidak mukmin setakat muslim sahaja mementingkan fesyen yang dilihat manusia. sama audit diri kita tremasuk saya sendiri
Dr. Zaharuddin : Nilai hati wanita dan pakaian (TV Al-Hijrah)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahKVevx6mbw&feature=autoshare
Dengarkan ulasan daripada Dr. Zaharuddin berkenaan pemakaian dan nilai hati seorang wanita.
------------------
Prof Dr Muhaya
Suami patut mendidik isteri. Jom para wanita yang belum bertemu jodoh doa mendapat suami soleh. suami dayyus tidak berbau syurga eg membiarkan isteri mendedahkan aurat. jom kaum wanita jaga gambar yang kita letak kat facebook buka aurat. tidak ada apa nak dibanggakan dengan aurat kita tetapi membuka aib kita. GAmbar profile kita menggambarkan kemana kita diakhirat nanti.
Prof Muhaya_aurat wanita_1
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Prof Dr Muhaya via Prof Dr Muhaya
buat para ibu bapa yang tertipu apabila mereka menjadi soleh dan solehah tetapi anak perempuan dibiarkan berpakaian sesuka hati. Mereka akan menyesal diakhirat nanti apabila anak anak menjadi penghalang mereka masuk syurga. Banyak ibu bapa bangga dengan pencapaian dunia, Hanya orang yang tidak mukmin setakat muslim sahaja mementingkan fesyen yang dilihat manusia. sama audit diri kita tremasuk saya sendiri
Dr. Zaharuddin : Nilai hati wanita dan pakaian (TV Al-Hijrah)
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Dengarkan ulasan daripada Dr. Zaharuddin berkenaan pemakaian dan nilai hati seorang wanita.
------------------
Prof Dr Muhaya
Suami patut mendidik isteri. Jom para wanita yang belum bertemu jodoh doa mendapat suami soleh. suami dayyus tidak berbau syurga eg membiarkan isteri mendedahkan aurat. jom kaum wanita jaga gambar yang kita letak kat facebook buka aurat. tidak ada apa nak dibanggakan dengan aurat kita tetapi membuka aib kita. GAmbar profile kita menggambarkan kemana kita diakhirat nanti.
Prof Dr Muhaya via Prof Dr Muhaya
buat para ibu bapa yang tertipu apabila mereka menjadi soleh dan solehah tetapi anak perempuan dibiarkan berpakaian sesuka hati. Mereka akan menyesal diakhirat nanti apabila anak anak menjadi penghalang mereka masuk syurga. Banyak ibu bapa bangga dengan pencapaian dunia, Hanya orang yang tidak mukmin setakat muslim sahaja mementingkan fesyen yang dilihat manusia. sama audit diri kita tremasuk saya sendiri
Dr. Zaharuddin : Nilai hati wanita dan pakaian (TV Al-Hijrah)
www.youtube.com
Dengarkan ulasan daripada Dr. Zaharuddin berkenaan pemakaian dan nilai hati seorang wanita.
------------------
Prof Dr Muhaya
Suami patut mendidik isteri. Jom para wanita yang belum bertemu jodoh doa mendapat suami soleh. suami dayyus tidak berbau syurga eg membiarkan isteri mendedahkan aurat. jom kaum wanita jaga gambar yang kita letak kat facebook buka aurat. tidak ada apa nak dibanggakan dengan aurat kita tetapi membuka aib kita. GAmbar profile kita menggambarkan kemana kita diakhirat nanti.
Tuesday, 27 September 2011
Wanita yg mampu menarik lelaki ke dalam neraka
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4 golongan lelaki yg akan ditarik masuk ke neraka oleh wanita
by Syed Hanafie on Tuesday, September 27, 2011 at 6:59am
Di akhirat nanti ada 4 golongan lelaki yg akan ditarik masuk ke neraka oleh wanita. Lelaki itu adalah mereka yg tidak memberikan hak kpd wanita dan tidak menjaga amanah itu. Mereka ialah:
1. Ayahnya
Apabila seseorang yg bergelar ayah tidak mempedulikan anak2 perempuannya didunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat,mengaji dan sebagainya Dia membiarkan anak2 perempuannya tidak menutup aurat. Tidak cukup kalau dgn hanya memberi kemewahan dunia sahaja. Maka dia akan ditarik ke neraka oleh anaknya.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg bergelar ayah, bagaimanakah hal keadaan anak perempuanmu sekarang?. Adakah kau mengajarnya bersolat & saum?..menutup aurat?.. pengetahuan agama?.. Jika tidak cukup salah satunya, maka bersedialah utk menjadi bahan bakar neraka jahannam.)
2. Suaminya
Apabila sang suami tidak mempedulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul! bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan utk suami tapi utk pandangan kaum lelaki yg bukan mahram. Apabila suami mendiam diri walaupun seorang yg alim dimana solatnya tidak pernah bertangguh, saumnya tidak tinggal, maka dia akan turut ditarik oleh isterinya bersama-sama ke dlm neraka.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg bergelar suami, bagaimanakah hal keadaan isteri tercintamu sekarang?. Dimanakah dia? Bagaimana akhlaknya? Jika tidak kau menjaganya mengikut ketetapan syari'at, maka terimalah hakikat yg kau akan sehidup semati bersamanya di 'taman' neraka sana .)
3. Abang-abangnya
Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada,tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke bahu abang-abangnya dan saudara lelakinya. Jikalau mereka hanya mementingkan keluarganya sahaja dan adiknya dibiar melencong dari ajaran Islam,tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat kelak.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg mempunyai adik perempuan, jgn hanya menjaga amalmu, dan jgn ingat kau terlepas... kau juga akan dipertanggungjawabkan diakhirat kelak...jika membiarkan adikmu bergelumang dgn maksiat... dan tidak menutup aurat.)
4. Anak2 lelakinya
Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yg haram disisi Islam. bila ibu membuat kemungkaran mengumpat, memfitnah, mengata dan sebagainya...maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak....dan nantikan tarikan ibunya ke neraka.
(p/s; Duhai anak2 lelaki.... sayangilah ibumu.... nasihatilah dia jika tersalah atau terlupa.... krn ibu juga insan biasa... x lepas dr melakukan dosa... selamatkanlah dia dr menjadi 'kayu api' neraka....jika tidak, kau juga akan ditarik menjadi penemannya.)
Lihatlah.....betapa hebatnya tarikan wanita bukan sahaja di dunia malah diakhirat pun tarikannya begitu hebat. Maka kaum lelaki yg bergelar ayah/suami/abang atau anak harus memainkan peranan mereka. Firman Allah S.W.T; "Hai anak Adam, peliharalah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka dimana bahan bakarnya ialah manusia, jin dan batu-batu...."..!!!!
4 golongan lelaki yg akan ditarik masuk ke neraka oleh wanita
by Syed Hanafie on Tuesday, September 27, 2011 at 6:59am
Di akhirat nanti ada 4 golongan lelaki yg akan ditarik masuk ke neraka oleh wanita. Lelaki itu adalah mereka yg tidak memberikan hak kpd wanita dan tidak menjaga amanah itu. Mereka ialah:
1. Ayahnya
Apabila seseorang yg bergelar ayah tidak mempedulikan anak2 perempuannya didunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat,mengaji dan sebagainya Dia membiarkan anak2 perempuannya tidak menutup aurat. Tidak cukup kalau dgn hanya memberi kemewahan dunia sahaja. Maka dia akan ditarik ke neraka oleh anaknya.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg bergelar ayah, bagaimanakah hal keadaan anak perempuanmu sekarang?. Adakah kau mengajarnya bersolat & saum?..menutup aurat?.. pengetahuan agama?.. Jika tidak cukup salah satunya, maka bersedialah utk menjadi bahan bakar neraka jahannam.)
2. Suaminya
Apabila sang suami tidak mempedulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul! bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan utk suami tapi utk pandangan kaum lelaki yg bukan mahram. Apabila suami mendiam diri walaupun seorang yg alim dimana solatnya tidak pernah bertangguh, saumnya tidak tinggal, maka dia akan turut ditarik oleh isterinya bersama-sama ke dlm neraka.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg bergelar suami, bagaimanakah hal keadaan isteri tercintamu sekarang?. Dimanakah dia? Bagaimana akhlaknya? Jika tidak kau menjaganya mengikut ketetapan syari'at, maka terimalah hakikat yg kau akan sehidup semati bersamanya di 'taman' neraka sana .)
3. Abang-abangnya
Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada,tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke bahu abang-abangnya dan saudara lelakinya. Jikalau mereka hanya mementingkan keluarganya sahaja dan adiknya dibiar melencong dari ajaran Islam,tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat kelak.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg mempunyai adik perempuan, jgn hanya menjaga amalmu, dan jgn ingat kau terlepas... kau juga akan dipertanggungjawabkan diakhirat kelak...jika membiarkan adikmu bergelumang dgn maksiat... dan tidak menutup aurat.)
4. Anak2 lelakinya
Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yg haram disisi Islam. bila ibu membuat kemungkaran mengumpat, memfitnah, mengata dan sebagainya...maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak....dan nantikan tarikan ibunya ke neraka.
(p/s; Duhai anak2 lelaki.... sayangilah ibumu.... nasihatilah dia jika tersalah atau terlupa.... krn ibu juga insan biasa... x lepas dr melakukan dosa... selamatkanlah dia dr menjadi 'kayu api' neraka....jika tidak, kau juga akan ditarik menjadi penemannya.)
Lihatlah.....betapa hebatnya tarikan wanita bukan sahaja di dunia malah diakhirat pun tarikannya begitu hebat. Maka kaum lelaki yg bergelar ayah/suami/abang atau anak harus memainkan peranan mereka. Firman Allah S.W.T; "Hai anak Adam, peliharalah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka dimana bahan bakarnya ialah manusia, jin dan batu-batu...."..!!!!
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